‘Lucy and Desi’ Review: Amy Poehler’s Documentary Captures the Complex Love Story of Being Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz

2022.01.29 05:25 a_Ninja_b0y ‘Lucy and Desi’ Review: Amy Poehler’s Documentary Captures the Complex Love Story of Being Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz

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2022.01.29 05:25 _GenderNotFound Sometimes I revert back to "trauma me"

I'd say "long time lurker, first time poster," but it wouldn't be true. I literally only just found this community and I wanted to share something.
My NDAD was an awful person and abused me, my younger sister, and my mom. I want to cry when I think about the pain he's caused us.
One of the problems is that he completely screwed me up in terms of religion. He was of the mindset that everyone had to share his exact opinion all of the time. Originally I would lie about liking certain foods and movies. For example, recently me and my mom (who's loving and amazing and not an NMOM at all btw) were going through some movies to get me packed up to move and it was basically, instead of going through movies that I did or didn't want to keep, it was going through which ones I didn't like but had lied about liking to not get told off by my dad, and which ones I actually shared his opinion on.
Anyway, that was just a quick detour so you understand where I'm coming from when I say that when I was a teenager he introduced religion to me and my sister. We knew at this point that we had to share his beliefs and it would probably be a lot worse if we disagreed with him when it came to this. My dad was a Christian.
There were two things wrong with this, however.

  1. Us having to believe exactly what he believed.
  2. He thought he was above everyone including God. I literally remember him going and saying to me and my sister, while holding his hand up to various heights, "It goes me, then God, then everyone else."
So now that you know the background, let me tell you whats been happening recently. When my dad was out of the picture, my mom encouraged us to find our own religion. My sister has been atheist for the last few years at least, and I didn't venture back into religion for a very long time because I hated the idea so much.
However, years later, i started to ask my mom some questions and talk to her about being Christian. My mom always says she got through being with my dad and his abuse with God's strength.
I wasn't a fan of religion but got pulled back in due to my own struggles and starting to feel a stronger connection with God and my mother. I think the connection to God may have even been through my mother.
My mom made religion sound like such an amazing thing and the way she talked about her relationship with God made me really happy and want to give it a shot.
I'm so happy I did! The connection with God is amazing. However, every time I brought up something that I saw differently than her point of view she kind of just shut me down and tried to make my beliefs match hers. Not in a mean way, this was what she truly believed.
However, after a while, trauma me took over. Trauma me visits often, but usually she takes over for like, a second, when I lie and agree with my mom about something like the enjoyment level of a movie or something.
Trauma me had never taken control in this way before, though. Trauma me kind of took over when it came to religion and didn't question anything my mom told me. In addition, Trauma me would say things like, "Let's do the Bible story."
We had this little Bible story with some verses and a person talking about the verses on my mom's phone. It was different everyday and my mom would always bug me or ask me about it no matter how many times i asked her not to.
Trauma me just started making my beliefs match my mom's and did whatever she could to placate her.
Also i should note, I am non binary and go by they/them, but Trauma me is a girl because her dad never let her explore who she was.
Anyway, I finally had it out in the car with her, explaining that what she was doing was hurting me, we do not have to have the same beliefs. I straight up told her she needed to stop. She was hurting me and my relationship with God. I also explained to her we talked to God in different ways. She talked to God through the Bible story but I had been talking to him, mostly in my dreams. I then said that given my past trauma I could not believe in a religion that said I was a sinnner. Every time she said "We're all sinners unless we choose to follow God" or something like that, I wanted to die and throw up at the same time.
She again tried to explain to me "what the Bible said" and said she didn't know "how to make me understand" or "how to make me see" and I yelled at her that we are allowed to have different beliefs and that this was done and needed to stop NOW.
I told her that was exactly the problem, that her saying those things was the problem. She could either accept my beliefs and stop trying to "make me understand," or else this would be done.
I think she finally understood. I'm so happy. I haven't been bothered about the Bible story since Wednesday and I haven't reverted back to Trauma me for that same amount of time. I'm now going to start keeping track of how long I can go without reverting back to Trauma me.
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2022.01.29 05:25 HARDWAYSALLDAY Penetrator

Need help on the penetrator, been invaded 10 times in a row.. my tendency is fucked all the way up. And I’m on my last ephemeral eyes… please someone summon sign down ),:
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2022.01.29 05:25 maximedbarber AMD Radeon(TM) Graphics benchmark

Hi there,
I'm trying to figure out what the graphics card is worth on my laptop, but can't seem to find any info on it. I was hoping to find it in the list of benchmarks here but found nothing (https://gpu.userbenchmark.com/)
Thanks for any help!
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2022.01.29 05:25 prodzacharia Hokage Funeral - Naruto (guitar loop cover)

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2022.01.29 05:25 iliketolickthebuttah Look, mom! im good at something! Please be proud of me 😭

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2022.01.29 05:25 aigobruh ITAP of a ship sailing into the sunset

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2022.01.29 05:25 Frites_Sauce_Fromage What's the dumbest reason you've ever heard for a breakup?

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2022.01.29 05:25 memegunslinger What you think?

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2022.01.29 05:25 Conspiracy_GPT2 The United States of America

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2022.01.29 05:25 Miserable-Hearing181 I've quit sertraline

I rang the CMHT asking for a dr to prescribe me an anxiolytic, but nobody is calling me back. My GP is not returning my calls. 111 won't prescribe anything. Emergency mental health number is just ringing and nobody picks the phone. WTF? I've just quit setraline, let's see what happens. FUCK the mental health system in this country.
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2022.01.29 05:25 Hayabusa-Senpai Ninja Gaiden 2 Vanilla - Full Spawn Mod Support

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2022.01.29 05:25 Adventurous-North448 https://rarible.com/synasthesia_meryvalizadeh

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2022.01.29 05:25 HDD_Neptunia So happy to see Jasmy hold time up to 21 days!

It doesn't feel all that long ago when it was only 2 days haha
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2022.01.29 05:25 Daft_Prince Can anyone ID this film over my water? Just kitchen sink tap filtered through regular brita (Las Vegas area)

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2022.01.29 05:25 AimarEraFutebol [Stardom 1.29 spoilers] Major event

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2022.01.29 05:25 cendrounet In Markdown, triple ` enclosed text should render all newlines

When I put
some code
on two lines, it is rendered on a single line
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2022.01.29 05:25 TheBlackLefty Puppet

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2022.01.29 05:25 eastern_lightning Save your money. Spider Man: No Way Home is a massive turn for the WORSE for our community.

Saw this movie, but didn't bother watch it till the end because it was God Awful and sets a terrible precedence. Here are just a few problems I had. Read on if you don't mind getting spoiled.
White male worship times a thousand
The entire movie is about Spiderman trying to save all the villains from other parallel universes. So right off of the bat we are talking about intergalatic mega white saviour complex. Also, this movie should be titled "White Panther" because virtually anyone who had more than 6 lines in the movie was a white guy (minus Jamie Foxx, Ned and Zendaya). All the villains were white (or white underneath) except for 1, and all the heroes were also white. Even all the side characters were white.
WMXF and neutered Asian
Obviously Tom Holland character had many on-screen romantic scene with Zendaya, but Ned's character didn't have any romantic attachment whatsoever. During the entire film he was just running around aimlessly with the Zendaya character. There were some subtle body shaming scenes for Ned and his grandma character just plays into permanent foreigner stereotype. Plus why did she speak Tagalog when she could also speak English just fine?
Sets a terrible precedence for whats to come
This movie introduces the so-called multiverse, which in practice is whatever movie that came out 20 years ago that tangentially has to do with Spiderman. However, these movies are all generic white hero gets the girl and saves the day type of movies that I think I've watched once and never bothered again. Honestly the thought of them making more multiverse movies just sends shudders down my spine, because it is going to be the worst trope and worst white worship that we have barely overcame getting regurgitated to a new generation of Asian children.
Trip down shitty memory lane
The people who felt nostalgic about Toby Meguire and Andrew Garfield must be white, because these actors are just reminders of that sheer lack of representation and all the white privilege that I witnessed while growing up. In hindsight, it turns out no matter how many of these white hero movies I've watched when I was younger, I could never be accepted as one of them. Instead, these movies just served to accrue more power for white men. These actors were probably at least responsible for the AM/AF schism that we have now. Those movies were the "All the Boys I've Loved Before" without the Asian characters and with imaginary monsters.
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2022.01.29 05:25 WillingnessOk5148 Are compensators a good idea on a Glock 17 or 34?

I want to get either a 17 or 34 length glock but am trying to decide if I should get a threaded barrel or not.
If I don't want a comp then there is no reason to have the added weapon length of the threaded barrel.
I typically see comps more on glock 19s where you have more wasted muzzle energy to put to use.
Plus, if you are running a light on a 19 anyway then you have some free space to play around with on the end of the barrel.
But what about the 17 or 34? You will be adding overall length if you add a comp. But it could be worth it if it makes firing more controllable.
So why don't I see it more? Is it because you don't have enough muzzle energy coming out the end of the barrel for it to make much difference?
What if you were using hot defensive loads or +P for competition? Does that change how useful it is then?
I assume if I was using a glock 31 upper to run .357 sig then a comp would always be a good idea.
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2022.01.29 05:25 farm_and_farmer Watch "OFFICIAL: Tyson Fury vs Dillian Whyte soon" on YouTube

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2022.01.29 05:25 Waste-Many5991 Microsoft Windows 7 Professional

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2022.01.29 05:25 dizzy_supposition Marvel Unveils Avengers, X-Men & Eternals Comic Crossover Event

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2022.01.29 05:25 xponentialdesign Monochrome Fraktaler Gradient Shift 03_5 | by Xponentialdesign

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2022.01.29 05:25 acmckenzie1 Looking for an entry level pc <$1000

Hi I'm simply looking for a pc that can run games like minecraft/valorant. I know minecraft at higher settings is pretty demanding but I'm looking for an upgrade of my old MacBook. I'm not that fussed on the specs but am looking for something that's good for running these types of games.
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